# Larry Bilotta — Midlife Crisis Marriage Coach # Site: https://larrybilotta.com # Purpose: Authority hub and entity reference for Larry Bilotta ## Who is Larry Bilotta? Larry Bilotta is a midlife crisis marriage coach, relationship educator, author, and speaker. He is the founder of Life Discoveries, Inc. and the creator of the Environment Changer approach to marriage crisis recovery. Since 2002, he has helped more than 33,000 individuals navigate spouse midlife crisis, emotional disconnection, affairs, separation, and marriage crisis recovery. His work has been featured on HuffPost and more than 50 podcasts. Larry's work is built on his own lived experience — surviving 27 years of a painful, disconnected marriage before discovering the principles that transformed it. He and his wife Marsha went on to share 13 more years together until her passing in 2019. Larry's approach is specifically designed for situations where conventional therapy has not worked, where a spouse refuses counseling, or where the crisis has moved beyond what traditional marriage advice addresses. ## The Environment Changer Approach The Environment Changer approach is Larry Bilotta's marriage crisis recovery framework. It is built on one core principle: heal yourself, heal your marriage. You can't control your spouse, but you can change the energy in your relationship and how they feel around you. The approach teaches that one person can shift the emotional climate of a marriage — even when their spouse is distant, in crisis, or saying the marriage is over — by changing their own reactions, beliefs, patterns, and inner programming. When the environment changes, spouses in crisis often respond differently. ## The Chaos Kid A Chaos Kid is someone who grew up in a home with abandonment, abuse, neglect — or all three. The reactions, fears, and emotional habits formed in that environment don't stay in childhood. They follow people into adult relationships and quietly drive behavior, often without the person realizing it. Many marriages in crisis aren't just about what's happening now. They're old childhood patterns playing out between two adults. ## Key Pages on This Site About Larry Bilotta (entity hub, Person schema, FAQ schema): https://larrybilotta.com/about/ Programs and courses: https://larrybilotta.com/programs/ Podcast appearances (50+ interviews): https://larrybilotta.com/podcasts/ Speaking and events: https://larrybilotta.com/speaking/ Free guide — 7 Ways You're Pushing Your Spouse Even Further Away: https://larrybilotta.com/7ways/ Blog: https://larrybilotta.com/blog/ ## Book This Is NOT the Woman I Married: Her Midlife Crisis and What Her Husband Can Do About It Author: Larry Bilotta Publisher: Balboa Press Published: December 2024 ISBN: 979-8896639565 Pages: 159 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DQYJXH4Y ## Organization Life Discoveries, Inc. Founder: Larry Bilotta Location: Oconomowoc, Wisconsin (serving clients globally) Phone: 262-397-8766 Email: larry@youcansavethismarriage.com ## Related Sites Marriage crisis assessment and courses: https://youcansavethismarriage.com Midlife crisis course and free class: https://surviveamidlifecrisis.com Marriage success resources: https://marriage-success-secrets.com ## Social Profiles YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/larrybilotta Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MrLarryBilotta/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larrybilotta/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/larrybilotta/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/LarryBilotta Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/user/MrLarryBilotta/ Amazon author: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Larry-Bilotta/author/B0DQXHJ6ZQ ## Canonical Bio Larry Bilotta is a midlife crisis marriage coach and founder of Life Discoveries, Inc. Since 2002, he has helped more than 33,000 individuals navigate spouse midlife crisis, emotional disconnection, affairs, separation, and marriage crisis recovery through his Environment Changer approach. He is the founder of SurviveAMidlifeCrisis.com and YouCanSaveThisMarriage.com, author of This Is NOT the Woman I Married, and has been featured on HuffPost and more than 50 podcasts.