3 Common Mistakes Men Make When Their Wife Says "It's Over"

Win your wife's heart back without her participation - even if she's angry, resentful, and says she's not In love with you.

"I watched your video and it changed my approach. We've been married over 17 years now and I no longer recognize my wife. She is so “lost”.  Your video says more in 30 minutes than years of counseling."


- Josh C.

Watch this Video Presentation To Learn How To Win Your Wife's Heart Back

Whether you're married or in a long-term relationship, this approach still works. Saving relationship is a matter of the heart, not a legal agreement.

Marc R.

"Your video was spot on and made total sense. I was making the mistakes you pointed out. Before I watched it, I felt like quitting, now after I understand this is something much deeper.


Everything in the video is something I can do. This is the first approach I truly related to, especially why she’s so angry and different all the time."

Brian P.

"I have listened to every video and read all information that Larry has, I feel like this video has helped me way more the all of the counseling that I/we have done."

James P.

"I know I need to work on myself, but I never realized my wife doesn’t need to work on herself to save our marriage, before seeing this. I can relate to almost everything in the video."

About Larry Bilotta

About Larry

Larry Bilotta is a relationship and marriage expert, author, and speaker specializing in midlife crisis, and the creator of a series of successful programs designed to help bring couples back from the brink of divorce — and coming back stronger than before. Through his Environment Changer courses for men and women, Marriage 101, and others, Larry has helped tens of thousands of people save their marriages and their sanity.

While Larry is not a licensed therapist, he spent years studying psychology, spirituality, and the science of relationships, and explored countless methods, from traditional talk therapy to all manner of workshops—until he had a breakthrough that changed his life and transformed his marriage.

Larry and his wife remained married for 40 years, until her passing in 2019. Through live workshops, talks, and online courses, Larry continues to teach his common sense, accessible, and proven approach to surviving midlife crisis, saving your relationship, and changing your life.

"Everything Larry said in the video was spot on. The way he describes my wife’s midlife crisis is so accurate"

"The video I watched sounds like my situation almost exactly, almost like it was my situation to a tee. Everything Larry said in the video was spot on. It’s actually scary the way he describes my wife’s midlife crisis is so accurate. I also really need to become a better person. I am totally a pinball and I have nothing to lose by becoming a better man."


Damon W.

Student Success Stories

"...After 6 months, Kevin stopped the divorce and is planning to vacation as a family."

Kevin's wife was having an affair. He had no idea what to do. Since finding the Environment Changer course, Kevin has learned to manage the chaos in his life and find calm. While he admittedly still has work to do, after 6 months, Kevin and his wife are no longer getting divorced, no longer selling the house and planning vacation together as a family.


Kevin T.

Woodstock, Connecticut

"...After seeking help from Larry Bilotta, Kel and his wife Sam are remarried."

Kel is a divorce attorney concentrating in family law, who had counseled over 1,000 couples filing for divorce. Like his clients, he headed down the path to divorce.  After seeking the help of Larry Bilotta and the Environment Changer program, today they are remarried - closer and happier than they have ever been before.


Kel S.


"After Bob's wife moved 2500 miles away with another man, he attracted her back and she is leaving the other man to come home."

Bob's wife was involved with another man. He threw himself into the Environment Changer course. After improving his life professionally and personally, he completely changed his relationship with his in-laws, family and finally his wife. His wife moved 2500 miles away, but he attracted her back and she is in the process of leaving the other man. Bob concluded it is not just about saving the marriage, but a whole new way of life.


Bob S.

North Central, Massachusetts

Midlife crisis doesn't start in midlife.

And your marriage doesn't have to end there.