3 Mistakes Women Make When their Husband Says "It's Over"

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3 Mistakes Women Make When their Husband Says "It's Over"

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my husband is connecting with our kids and seems to be feeling better and acting less angry.

When I signed up for the Environment Changer course, I felt really lost and hopeless. Since then, my husband is connecting with our kids and seems to be feeling better and acting less angry.

He is kind to me and even spoke with me about our relationship for the first time in 14 months. He said he spent the past year exploring and is feeling better and wants to be a better father and husband. He said he loves me. If I didn’t find you and EC we wouldn’t be moving in a positive direction.

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20+ years helping tens of thousands of people save their sanity, marriages and regain control over their own lives and mindset.
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It only takes one person to heal a marriage

Fixing your marriage begins with healing yourself, first

Look – if you’re like most people faced with a spouse who says it’s over, you’ve tried everything, but nothing works. Marriage counseling, books, seminars, courses, pastors – there is no rationalizing with them and to make matters worse, you don’t know why! I do!

“Once size fits all” marriage programs won’t cut it in situations like yours.

My Environment Changer system is entirely different. See what my students have to say in their own words. This is very specialized stuff – but it doesn’t work for everyone.

Is this approach right for you?

This system IS for you if:

You want to avoid making the same mistakes in the future
You want to wipe out the old obstacles and connect with your husband again physically and emotionally
You are ready to become the woman your husband was first attracted to
You want to break the chain of family chaos and protect your kids from a life of it

This system is NOT for you if:

You refuse to move past the anger and resentment over past issues
You insist you are right and he is wrong
You have “one foot out the door” and have nearly given up
You are unwilling to apply unconventional techniques and methods you’ve never heard before
You do not believe you can transform your marriage without your husband's participation
You are not ready to do something right now

I feel her coming back to me slowly but it is happening.

I just wanted you to know exactly how right you were about my wife’s personality. You hit the nail on the head and woke me up to how blind I’ve been about what she’s needed from me. I feel her coming back to me slowly but it is happening.

I’m doing a lot better in sticking to everything you’ve taught me. I have far more control of my emotions than I ever have in my whole life because of your program. I’ve learned a lot more from you but these are the big things. I just wanted to share that with you.

Scott M.

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My husband told me he wanted to change his life in a positive way because he doesn’t like how things went the last few years. He’s taken care of all the finances and anything that needs to be done in the house. I know I all created this.

I want to thank you for everything you thought me in the EC course. It surely changed my life. Everything you thought me about energy was life changing for me and I’m so grateful this happened and that you brought me on my path of finding my true amazing self.

Thank you again dear Larry. I keep listening to your calls when possible, course materials and summaries to keep me on track. Your course is the best thing that ever happened to me.

Victoria R.

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