About Larry

About Larry

Larry Bilotta is a relationship and marriage expert, author, and speaker specializing in midlife crisis, and the creator of a series of successful programs designed to help bring couples back from the brink of divorce—and coming back stronger than before.

Through his Environment Changer courses for men and women, Marriage 101, and others, Larry has helped tens of thousands of people save their sanity, marriages and regain control over their own lives and mindset.

While Larry is not a therapist, he spent years studying psychology, spirituality, and the science of relationships, and explored countless methods, from traditional talk therapy to all manner of workshops—until he had a breakthrough that changed his life and transformed his marriage.

Larry and his wife remained married for 40 years, until her passing in 2019. Through live workshops, talks, and online courses, Larry continues to teach his common sense, accessible, and proven approach to surviving midlife crisis, saving your relationship, and changing your life.

My Story

For 27 years, I lived in a loveless marriage.

I didn’t really know Marsha, and we had virtually nothing in common—except that which we hadn’t yet discovered: We both had a “chaos kid” inside of us, a combination of learned responses and beliefs, fears and value systems that were impacting our marriage directly.

And it set us on a collision course for decades of hell.  Watch the video for my full story.

We are a much different, and MUCH BETTER couple than we've ever been! I didn't get him to change. I changed.

"The Environment Changer course WORKED!!!!  Last Saturday, my husband's grown niece said 'I am so happy you two are back together again! I can't believe you finally got him to change!' I laughed and said, I didn't get him to change. I changed. She didn't believe me. We were at the divorce stage. He had moved out.

There were MANY times, I had doubts that we would ever get back together. I cried every day.  I am sure he was 100% done. But I kept working the program and did the work. Yesterday he woke me up bursting with excitement to tell me he got my Valentine's Day present (in years past, V-day was commercial BS). Today, he printed out photos of 'us' that he thought would be nice to have around the office. We are a much different, and MUCH BETTER couple than we've ever been!