It only takes one person to heal a marriage

and it's never too late to save it.

You can’t “force” someone to stay. You can’t “make” anyone do anything. But you can dramatically shift the dynamic of your relationship, not by what you do, but by the mental and emotional environment you create.

It only takes one to heal a marriage and it's never too late to save it.

You can’t “force” someone to stay. You can’t “make” anyone do anything.

But you can dramatically shift the dynamic of your relationship, not by what you do, but by the mental and emotional environment you create.

Your marriage has less to do with the physical and more to do with physics.

Physics is the science of matter, energy, and their relationship to each other—and that means it applies to everything on the planet. Including us.

That means everything you do in your relationship and in your life either draws energy and matter toward you, or pushes it away.  It actually doesn’t matter what you look like, or what you used to look like. 

You have the power, right now, to create an environment that attracts and sustains love — or drives it away.

Master the physics of your mind and marriage, and shift your energy to maintain what matters.

Larry Bilotta

Hi, I'm Larry.

I’m a relationship and marriage expert, author, and speaker specializing in midlife crisis, and the creator of a series of successful programs designed to help bring couples back from the brink of divorce — and coming back stronger than before.

I should know. I’m not a licensed therapist or a physicist. I suffered through 27 years of hell in my marriage, until the 28th year when I turned it all around. And you can, too. Read my story.

Larry Bilotta

Hi, I'm Larry.

I’m a relationship and marriage expert, author, and speaker specializing in midlife crisis, and the creator of a series of successful programs designed to help bring couples back from the brink of divorce — and coming back stronger than before.

I should know. I’m not a licensed therapist or a physicist. I suffered through 27 years of hell in my marriage, until the 28th year when I turned it all around. And you can, too. Read my story.

There's no such thing as a clean slate.

We don’t start anything — including a marriage — with a clean slate. It’s impossible.

We weren’t born yesterday. Our ideas, values, and beliefs were programmed into us early on, and they shape and influence our perspective, thoughts, feelings, and behavior.

Breaking down

The success of your marriage depends less on what might happen and far more on what already has.

Larry Bilotta

Your marriage did not start having problems yesterday, last month, or even 20 years ago.

It started long before — back when you were a child. 

Inside every unhappy marriage there’s childhood pain and a history that can trigger all kinds of emotional mayhem in midlife which can put relationships in jeopardy.

It can end in divorce — but it doesn’t have to.

"Larry's course has catapulted my life forward drastically and at a steroid speed rate...."

"I've been able to put ALL of what I've learned into practice and in my opinion it's working brilliantly. The Environment Changer course has catapulted my life forward drastically and at a steroid speed rate. I know that my husband will return home and our marriage will be stronger and more loving than ever."


CHRISTINE T.

Midlife crisis doesn’t start in midlife.

And your marriage doesn't have to end there.

"When I was drowning, Larry's program was a lifeline for me..."

"Larry has changed my life and now your Environment Changer program is changing my wife's as well. Thank you for all you do to help people improve their lives and save their relationships.

When I was drowning, Larry's program was a lifeline for me. I am now living my life better than I ever have, and that goes way beyond the relationship. Thank you again!"


MARGARET H.